Legally reviewed by:
Setareh Law
August 15, 2025

The tragic loss of a loved one is a heartache like no other. In the midst of grief, seeking comfort and connection through social media is natural. You may find yourself sharing memories, expressing sorrow, or simply trying to make sense of the overwhelming emotions. But while social media can offer solace, it’s important to be aware that your online presence can have unintended consequences when you’re considering a wrongful death lawsuit. Social media is now a part of everyday life and our daily lives, but people assume their privacy settings are enough to protect them. In reality, people realize too late that posts can be used in a negative light, especially in legal matters.

The impact of what you share online can be significant, from potentially harming your case to giving the opposing party ammunition to minimize your suffering. For example, sharing posts that appear to show you enjoying life after your loved one’s death can be used to undermine your case online and reduce the compensation you may receive. Setareh Law understands the delicate balance between grieving and pursuing justice. We are here to help guide you through this challenging time and help ensure your wrongful death claim has the best chance for success by advising you on how your social media presence can affect legal proceedings.

How Can Social Media Activity Be Used Against You?

When you file a wrongful death claim, every aspect of your life may come under scrutiny. The other party, whether an insurance company or an individual, will likely try to minimize or dismiss your claim. One of the first places they might look for information is your social media accounts. Insurance adjusters and opposing attorneys, along with your legal team, may review not only your posts but also those of family members, friends, and mutual friends. Friend requests from unknown accounts or mutual friends can be used to gain access to private information, including private messages.

Investigators may comb through your posts, photos, and interactions, searching for anything that could undermine your case. Deleted posts and even deleted posts can still be recovered and used as evidence, and strict privacy settings do not fully protect your account. Posting photos, check-ins, and location information can provide evidence, such as photos showing reckless behavior or activities that may be used to identify the individual responsible or suggest someone else’s negligence. For example, in a car accident or personal injury case, posts showing risky behavior before the incident have been used to affect the legal case or claims. Common social media mistakes, such as sharing family posts or posting about funeral expenses, can impact your ability to recover compensation or support claims of emotional distress. Legal support is crucial to help you navigate these risks and protect your rights during a personal injury claim.

Privacy Settings on Social Media Aren’t Always Guaranteed

Many believe that setting their social media profiles to private will protect them from scrutiny. While privacy settings can offer some protection, they are not foolproof. Social media sites have different privacy settings, but none can fully protect your account in wrongful death lawsuits or other legal cases. In a wrongful death case, your social media posts can still be subpoenaed and used as evidence, regardless of your account’s privacy status. It is also important to avoid tagging the deceased or their family members to protect your wrongful death case online and prevent unwanted attention.

Courts have granted access to private social media content in many cases, especially when it is deemed relevant to the legal matter at hand. Even if you carefully manage your account privacy settings, there’s no guarantee that your posts won’t be used against you in wrongful death cases or other legal cases. The best action is to limit your social media activity or avoid posting altogether until your case is resolved.

The Impact of Family and Friends on Your Case

When you’re pursuing a wrongful death claim, it’s not just your own social media posts that can come under scrutiny—those of your family and friends can also significantly impact your case. In today’s connected world, it’s common for loved ones to share memories, express condolences, or discuss the circumstances of a loved one’s passing on social media platforms. However, these well-intentioned posts can sometimes provide insurance companies and defense attorneys with evidence they can use to challenge or minimize your wrongful death claim.

Insurance companies and defense attorneys are known to monitor social media platforms for any online activity related to the wrongful death case. Posts from friends or family that discuss details of the incident, share photos from recent gatherings, or comment on how the family is coping can be taken out of context and used to argue that the loss has not caused as much emotional suffering or disruption as claimed. Even posts that seem harmless—such as sharing photos from family events or expressing hope for the future—can be misconstrued and potentially harm your claim.

To fully protect your wrongful death case, it’s important to talk with your family and friends about the risks of posting online during this sensitive time. Ask them to avoid sharing any information, photos, or opinions related to the wrongful death, the legal process, or your family’s emotional state. By working together to limit social media activity, you can help ensure that insurance companies and defense attorneys have less opportunity to use your loved ones’ posts as evidence against your claim.

Avoid Social Media Entirely to Safeguard Your Wrongful Death Case

The most effective way to protect your case from potential harm is to avoid social media altogether until your legal matters are resolved. Social media can affect the outcome of your legal case, as anything posted—including comments, photos, or videos—can be used as evidence and may influence how your case is perceived.

It’s not just about your own posts – ask your friends and family to refrain from mentioning you or your situation online. Investigators may search far and wide for any information that could be detrimental to your case, so it’s best to minimize your online presence entirely.

Get Trusted Legal Advice When You’re the Victim of a Wrongful Death Case

The last thing you need is for your social media activity to complicate matters when you’re going through a wrongful death lawsuit. Having an experienced legal team and comprehensive legal support is crucial to navigate wrongful death lawsuits, protect your claims, and ensure your digital footprint does not negatively impact your case. If you feel the need to use social media while your wrongful death case is ongoing, consult with your attorney before posting anything. Understanding the impact of social media on your case and taking steps to protect yourself allows you to focus on honoring your loved one’s memory and seeking the justice they deserve.

At Setareh Law, our compassionate wrongful death lawyers stand ready to walk you through this challenging wrongful death process. Our legal team can help you recover compensation, protect your case online, and ensure that your claims are not undermined by social media activity. We know what tactics are typically used by the opposition to undermine your claim and want to help you secure the compensation your family needs to move forward. Talk to experienced wrongful death attorneys at Setareh Law over a free consultation by calling (310) 659-1826 or completing a contact form.